First you know that I am a girl and am 20 years old and I live in California. The time this story takes place happened to me when I was in junior year of high school and was 17 years old at the time. After school one day, I was on Facebook doing what anyone would do, checking posts, commenting and updating my status when all of a sudden, I got a message.
At first I thought it was someone I knew and they just wanted to talk so I opened it to see who it was.
When I opened it, I saw it wasn’t anyone that I knew at all.
The person who messaged me was a man named Umer and he sent a message saying hi. I wasn’t sure why he messaged me so I checked out his account to see who he was. On his account, it said he was from Pakistan and a few other basic stuff that most people put on their accounts so I didn’t think much of it. In one of his picture, he looked to be maybe in his late twenties to early thirties.
After I messaged him, asking him who he was, he said I looked cute.
I thought it was a bit creepy but I had to remember that anyone can your pictures or posts and other stuff on Facebook so I just said thanks. Now this is where it gets creepy, a few hours later or so, I get another message from him asking me how old I was.
Of course I was a bit scared because I didn’t know if this guy was a pervert or not so I didn’t say anything.
Then I get another message. This time it said ” Will you marry me?” I was was a bit shocked by this because I didn’t know who this guy was so I told him no. I knew I should have blocked him when he asked how I was but whatever reason I didn’t.
Then he got upset with me and said that he was going to kill himself because I had said no to him. I told him that he shouldn’t kill himself because I had said no but he didn’t listen. I didn’t know what happened to him until a few days later when I got messaged by his brother that he was put in the hospital because he got into an accident. His brother asked me what happened and I told him what happened.
He was upset that I rejected him and that his brother was depressed.
I was a bit upset myself because this guy was blaming me for his brother trying to kill himself.
I told that to fuck of that I was underage and to young to wanting to marry so I finally blocked the account for good and to this day I never heard from him again. So next time someone says you’re cute and asks you to marry them, be careful what you say because they might just threaten to kill themselves if you don’t marry them and remember watch out for creepers.